MORE APPROPRIATE?
By
J.L.GUPTA
Having
been born in the pre- partition era, I remember
having seen the Hindus and Muslims living together as good neighbours.
In adjoining houses. With common walls. Meeting , eating laughing and chatting fondly with each other.
Sometimes, more than once during a day.
All looked alike. Spoke the same language. Relished similar food Wore similar
clothes. I vividly recall the ladies exchanging the sweet or other items of
food across the wall on the first floor without any hesitation. There were no
phones or cells. Just a shout was audible and enough. Next moment, the dish was
on the table and the contents on the respective plates. Only to vanish before
anyone could even realize it. All were just the same simple human beings. Grew up
together. No difference of any kind. All Birds of a feather. And invariably, they
did flock together.
Then
came the year 1947. While leaving, the Rulers partitioned the country. So were
the people divided. Those who were born in the same city, had played and grown
up together were separated by man-made borders. Who is where? Probably nobody
can tell. But certain events leave an indelible impact. May I share?
It
was the year 2010. We had gone to Vancouver and were staying in a Hotel by the
sea side. Clean blue water. Snow covered peaks. Mountains with Thick growth of trees; Sea planes continuously
taking off and landing – all presented a stunning sight that was crying to be
captured.
I
had a small SONY cyber shot. But wanted
a better one. Went to a Camera shop. The gentleman spent more than two hours in
helping me to choose a suitable camera. Ultimately, I chose a CANON D- 60. But
Mr. Salim (I hope I remember the name right) at the Cash counter refused to
sell the Camera to me when he learnt
that I was not a professional and that I took only about 500 pictures in a
year. So, he did not want me to waste my money. I Came away disappointed.
Then,
the year 2012. Nine members of the family Flew from Delhi to London. We had
nine bags. A gentleman speaking Panjabi fluently, who had obviously overheard
us talk, offered to get us to the hotel Thistle, for 160pounds in 4 big cars.
He even rang up some numbers and introduced himself as Salim. He did not
inspire any confidence. So, we took two local cabs. Reached our hotel. The
meter was showing 12 pounds. I gave him 25/- for the 2 cabs He returned 5pounds-
saying that he had by mistake made a detour. While Salim’s offer was 160 pounds, the English cabby had charged us only
20 pounds. Net saving of 140 pounds.
So,
within a short time, we had met two Salims. Except the names and probably the
religion as well, they were mutually wide
apart.
I
had set my heart on the canon Camera. Back in India, I went to a shop. Picked
up the camera. Was asked no question. I Paid the price and finally Won my peace.
Can
we still say - “The birds of a feather flock together?” Or is it more
appropriate to only say? – “It takes all kinds to make this world”